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Cel\u00fdch dev\u00e4\u0165 mesiacov sa te\u0161\u00edte na to, ako svoj mal\u00fd uzl\u00ed\u010dek vezmete do […]","datePublished":"2025-02-25","dateModified":"2025-02-25","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.hifol.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.hifol.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/3c4e99fa9a9806cd5e8fd7cac6ca73ff5bbf5f3ee309e1745415eebd31482909?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/3c4e99fa9a9806cd5e8fd7cac6ca73ff5bbf5f3ee309e1745415eebd31482909?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"hifol.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.hifol.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a280170_w2006_t1492709174.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.hifol.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a280170_w2006_t1492709174.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.hifol.sk\/ked-sa-narodi-novy-cloviecik\/","wordCount":758,"articleBody":"Ka\u017ed\u00e1, ktor\u00e1 to u\u017e za\u017eila, ur\u010dite ch\u00e1pe. Cel\u00fdch dev\u00e4\u0165 mesiacov sa te\u0161\u00edte na to, ako svoj mal\u00fd uzl\u00ed\u010dek vezmete do n\u00e1ru\u010dia a\u00a0budete mu m\u00f4c\u0165 venova\u0165 v\u0161etku svoju l\u00e1sku, nehu, opateru a\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00fa chv\u00ed\u013eu svojho \u010dasu. Ke\u010f to kone\u010dne pr\u00edde a\u00a0vy ste odrazu hrdou maminou, ktor\u00e1 je odhodlan\u00e1 postara\u0165 sa o\u00a0svoje die\u0165atko a\u00a0v\u0161etko s\u00a0n\u00edm spojen\u00e9 tak, ako ste si to vysn\u00edvali, nast\u00e1va \u010dasto probl\u00e9m.Ono sa mo\u017eno zd\u00e1, \u017ee tak\u00e9 b\u00e1b\u00e4tko len pap\u00e1, kak\u00e1 a\u00a0spink\u00e1, ale nie je to celkom tak. Tie \u0161\u0165astnej\u0161ie mami\u010dky, u ktor\u00fdch to tak funguje a\u00a0ich deti\u010dky sa nepotrebuj\u00fa st\u00e1le nosi\u0165 na ruk\u00e1ch alebo hojda\u0165 v\u00a0ko\u010d\u00edku m\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165 naozaj ve\u013emi spokojn\u00e9 a\u00a0prv\u00e9 dni s\u00a0b\u00e1b\u00e4tkom nemusia by\u0165 pre ne ve\u013ekou z\u00e1\u0165a\u017eou. Ale s\u00fa aj deti\u010dky, ktor\u00e9 potrebuj\u00fa neust\u00e1le c\u00edti\u0165 pr\u00edtomnos\u0165 svojej mamy alebo ich tr\u00e1pia bolesti bru\u0161ka \u010di in\u00e9 zdravotn\u00e9 \u0165a\u017ekosti.Vtedy je mamina, ktor\u00e1 je e\u0161te slab\u00e1 po p\u00f4rode, nevyspat\u00e1 kv\u00f4li bezsenn\u00fdm nociam a\u00a0strhan\u00e1 z\u00a0toho, \u017ee je toho na \u0148u asi prive\u013ea jedn\u00fdm uzl\u00edkom nervov, ktor\u00fd len \u010dak\u00e1 na to, kedy vybuchne. Novope\u010den\u00e9 mami\u010dky za\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa ve\u013ea nov\u00e9ho a\u00a0musia sa prisp\u00f4sobi\u0165 v\u0161etk\u00fdm zmen\u00e1m, ktor\u00e9 im do \u017eivota prinieslo ich b\u00e1b\u00e4tko. Niekedy to zvl\u00e1daj\u00fa lep\u0161ie, inokedy zasa hor\u0161ie. Je to prirodzen\u00e9 a\u00a0\u017eiadna mama by si nemala d\u00e1va\u0165 za vidu, \u017ee je neschopn\u00e1, preto\u017ee jej die\u0165atko pla\u010de \u010dastej\u0161ie ako in\u00e9 deti a\u00a0ona asi nie je dobrou mamou.\u00a0Ako pom\u00f4c\u0165?Prvoradou oporou v\u00a0t\u00fdchto chv\u00ed\u013each by mal by\u0165 pre \u017eenu jej partner, man\u017eel. Obaja sa stali rodi\u010dmi, preto by v\u00a0tom mali by\u0165 spolu. Novope\u010den\u00fd otecko by sa mal tie\u017e \u010do najviac zap\u00e1ja\u0165 do starostlivosti o\u00a0b\u00e1b\u00e4tko, samozrejme tak, ako mu to umo\u017en\u00ed jeho pr\u00e1ca a\u00a0povinnosti. Rovnako by mal viac pom\u00e1ha\u0165 s\u00a0dom\u00e1cimi pr\u00e1cami \u010di varen\u00edm.Mo\u017eno sa zd\u00e1, \u017ee ke\u010f je \u017eena cel\u00fd de\u0148 doma, mala by to zvl\u00e1da\u0165 bez probl\u00e9mov sama. Opak je ale pravdou. Hlavne v\u00a0prv\u00fdch d\u0148och potrebuje mami\u010dka hlavne oddych a\u00a0pohodu, aby sa plnohodnotne mohla stara\u0165 tak o\u00a0die\u0165atko ako aj o\u00a0seba a\u00a0potom aj \u00a0o\u00a0dom\u00e1cnos\u0165. Jej vy\u010derpanos\u0165 a\u00a0nervozita m\u00f4\u017eu toti\u017e viez\u0165 k\u00a0strate matersk\u00e9ho mlie\u010dka, \u00fazkostiam \u010di depresi\u00e1m, \u010do naozaj nepom\u00f4\u017ee nikomu.V\u00a0prv\u00fdch d\u0148och sa do starostlivosti o\u00a0nov\u00fa rodinku \u010dasto zap\u00e1jaj\u00fa aj star\u00e9 mamy, ktor\u00e9 chc\u00fa \u201emlad\u00fdm\u201c pom\u00f4c\u0165. Je pekn\u00e9, ak je to tak, ale treba to robi\u0165 citlivo a\u00a0s\u00a0mierou. Mlad\u00e9 maminy toti\u017e \u010dasto potrebuj\u00fa ma\u0165 k\u013eud a\u00a0u\u010di\u0165 sa stara\u0165 sa o\u00a0b\u00e1b\u00e4tko samy. A\u00a0to star\u00e9 mamy pln\u00e9 \u201estar\u00fdch dobr\u00fdch r\u00e1d a\u00a0sk\u00fasenost\u00ed\u201c nemusia v\u017edy ch\u00e1pa\u0165. Je dobr\u00e9, vysvetli\u0165 si odkia\u013e pokia\u013e si mamina pomoc vy\u017eaduje a\u00a0z\u00a0\u010d\u00edm potrebuje, aby je bolo pom\u00e1han\u00e9. A\u00a0samozrejme je na mieste, aby aj star\u00e1 mama, ktor\u00e1 je ochotn\u00e1 venova\u0165 svoj \u010das poc\u00edtila aj patri\u010dn\u00fa v\u010faku.\u00a0N\u00e1v\u0161tevy? Rad\u0161ej nie!Samozrejme, ka\u017ed\u00fd je zvedav\u00fd na mal\u00e9ho \u010dlovie\u010dika a\u00a0chce ho \u010do najsk\u00f4r vidie\u0165, pr\u00edpadne s nie\u010d\u00edm pom\u00f4c\u0165. Preto sa viac ako oby\u010dajne nahlasuj\u00fa n\u00e1v\u0161tevy, ktor\u00e9 to myslia s\u00edce dobre, ale mlad\u00e1 rodina s\u00a0b\u00e1b\u00e4tkom t\u00fato pozornos\u0165 v\u00a0prv\u00fdch t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148och naozaj nepotrebuje.\u00a0 Ak s\u00fa \u013eudia citliv\u00ed a\u00a0asert\u00edvni, pochopia, ak ich n\u00e1v\u0161tevu zdvorilo odmietnete.\u00a0Ako to cel\u00e9 zvl\u00e1dnu\u0165?\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 by\u0165 v\u00a0pohode, ve\u010f na tieto chv\u00edle ste sa to\u013eko te\u0161ili\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ma\u0165 na pam\u00e4ti, \u017ee prvorad\u00e9 je pohodlie a\u00a0spokojnos\u0165 v\u00e1s a\u00a0v\u00e1\u0161ho b\u00e1b\u00e4tka, trochu rozh\u00e1dzan\u00fd byt \u010di neutret\u00e1 dl\u00e1\u017eka v\u00e1s nesmie vyvies\u0165 z\u00a0miery\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ak potrebujete pom\u00f4c\u0165, nebojte sa o\u00a0\u0148u po\u017eiada\u0165\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 te\u0161te sa z\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00e9ho momentu, ktor\u00fd so svoj\u00edm die\u0165atkom pre\u017e\u00edvate, preto\u017ee \u010das be\u017e\u00ed ve\u013emi r\u00fdchlo\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 opakujte si, \u017ee v\u0161etko zvl\u00e1dnete a\u00a0o\u00a0p\u00e1r mesiacov budete na toto obdobie nostalgicky spom\u00edna\u0165                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Ke\u010f sa narod\u00ed nov\u00fd \u010dlovie\u010dik","item":"https:\/\/www.hifol.sk\/ked-sa-narodi-novy-cloviecik\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]